Be The Pacemaker To The Woman's Heart

So yes before everyone that was looking forward to reading my blog or went looking for it (well now yesterday) and didn't see it its because i had so very important things come up and they needed to be dealt with so yes i am now writing yesterdays blog today but i shall make up for it probably with another to follow today at some point during the day! So i am sorry to let my fellow readers and devoted followers down..... also well I'm on the topic of perhaps missing blogs on certain days..... i am going out of town for a few days next week so i will see what i can do about blogs then but no promises! However i will make up for them that's a promise!!!! Anyways onto the blog that was suppose to be yesterdays!!!

There was a comment question left by one of my usuals back a couple blog posts ago called "To Doubt Or not To Doubt That Is The Question!" the comment question asked: "Is there too slow even for the Nice Guy?" so i plan to answer this.....

I dunno if many of you have heard the old cliche "everything in moderation" before... but see i feel in a way this applies here to this question. But at the same time how can you tell if something is "slow" or "too slow"? If you really think about it the Nice guy takes everything in moderation and never tries to take too much of anything for granted especially the woman!!

Its not a matter of speed like i have mentioned in previous blogs.... its a matter of knowing the woman you are with! Every woman is different there is not a manual or instruction booklet that comes with them and its not one size fits all type of deal here! Every woman is so very unique in her own way and as the Nice guy it is your job to ask her things show general interest in her, talk to her understand and learn how and why she's feeling the things she feels! Like i said its not a matter of speed everything good in life takes time!

The relationship (a successful one that is) is all about setting a pace! Pace is key to what the woman wants and is comfortable with along with the guy!! Talk communicate find out what pace you and your partner want to work at!! Everyone likes different things and trusts each other on different levels so it comes down to the pace in which you wanna move forward together on mental, emotional and physical levels! Woman respect a man much more if he is willing to respect and pay attention to her needs!! Guys don't get me wrong here I'm not trying to put you in a position some would call "Whipped"!! That's not what is happening here!!! (I'm not saying woman don't abuse that right but that's a different topic for a different blog) Guys trust me here trust is everything and trust comes out in communication but also in setting a pace you are both secure with! You and your partner can always wish to increase the pace or "spice" things up but its easier to increase then it is to go in headstrong and try and decrease the pace because chances are the damage has already been done!!!

Sorry if this one came out shorter than normal hopefully i still answered everything good! Its been a long day with a whole lot of typing.... either way keep in mind everyone! Nice Guys don't have to be a dying breed !!!! Guys put the time in!! Set the proper pace!!! It will be worth your while!!

Sincerely,

Mr. Nice Guy

P.S. According to my blog post timing they still consider this thursdays blog so that a bonus but either way .... i'll still write another today some time since its like 1 am now !!