To Doubt Or Not To Doubt That Is The Question!

Well Readers and devoted followers i had to make a blog today before the day expires now see did i figure it was gunna be this late .....yeah probably! But like my buddy Teen Theory (fellow blogger....link at the bottom of the page) wrote today we all procrastinate! So here i am "hauling A** when need be!" So here is today's blog!

Ok before i get too far ahead of myself with blogs and forget about some of my comments left on a previous posts i shall respond to them! On my blog "Diamond In The Rough" i had a comment from one of my usual who asked: "how the guy may move too fast with things such as physical commitment, etc. and how this may affect things?" Now see the answer to this question is a big one! So Lets begin! (I have a feeling i will be coming back to this in future blogs like i have already in other blogs)

See like i have said before a guy is a physical creature! And we are instantly drawn to the appearance of the female! However with most guys you can throw the concept of "Love at first sight!" out the window!!!! To them its more like "Oh Hot Damn!" They instantly turn all the attention to the females features and not necessarily the face and personality! Not saying all guys out there are like that cuz remember i still advocate the Nice Guy!!! I'm talking about the "Typical" Guys here! These guys are dangerous ladies! These are the guys that are on the hunt for new "meat" (mainly because they don't know what's coming to them!) and will sweet talk their way into your pants!! If you let them!!

See when a woman is with a guy they are naturally more "safe" or "trustful" of him mainly because he is the boyfriend!! Now see.... women have a natural ability to become emotionally attached to men easily because women are emotional creatures! (Trust me ladies not picking you apart this is a great quality to have and i wish more guys were like that honestly!!) However "Typical" Guys take advantage of these things and tend to use this trust and the notoriously miss used word "Love" to get the "Physical" out of you ladies!!! The main reason why guys move that fast with women is basically cuz the women let them! (That and Ego and Reputation to most guys is everything) Now see ladies reading this i don't want you all to start doubting every guy you come across in your travels but i caution you to be skeptical of them all until they prove themselves otherwise!!! Is this i fail proof method?? Well of course not!!! Cuz these guys are like bacteria and will find a way to adapt to your change in trust! However it can spare you a lot of heartache and emotional or physical scars from regrets to just doubt them and be skeptical!!!

You give them a kiss or let them kiss you then that's how it starts!! A kiss to a woman is an emotional things and to a Nice Guy a load off his shoulders of "do i or don't i" (yet still emotional for them too) However to the typical guy although may seem nice about it on the outside or the first couple times after that but on the inside he is thinking it is only a matter of time before he starts getting more!! Ladies you must notice this!!!! If you find yourself in a relationship that you feel maybe going fast or physically advancing too quick for your comfort try talking to him and wait to see how he responds!! If it doesn't seem to phase him very much and brushes it off get out of that situation!! Chances are he is the "Typical" guy (since they are a dime a dozen) and well you know what he is after!!!

Guys as guys we take everything too far all the time even the Nice Guys do it unfortunately!! (not necessarily the physical aspects... but others). If you got the Nice Guy however ladies they will listen to you and will be willing to work on those things and improve for you!!

I've said it before and I'll say it again Nice Guys are hard to come by!!!!! But we aren't dead yet!!! Keep faith ladies!!! Don't be afraid to doubt us men!!! It could save you a lot!! However don't be afraid to get close either!!! Talk, communicate with men the ones that listen are yours to keep!!!!

Sincerely,

Mr. Nice Guy

P.S. Here's the link i promised! I'm not the one for promoting anyone/anything but this guy happens to be a "Nice Guy" and for that i respect him!!! Check him out!!!

http://anotherteentheory.blogspot.com/