Who Could He Be Now??

Readers and loyal followers of my blog! I am back hopefully somewhat on schedule! It is Monday and my blog survived the weekend. I had no doubts in that at all. I was busy and had important things to do....therefore not that you are not important but i have time for everything. Anyways on to today's blog topic!

Ok in response to a comment on one of my previous posts "Hello I Heard You Were Looking For Mr. Right!" i dedicate today's blog to answering this: "Are ALL nice guys shy or is it a sudden burst of courage, or is it always the best friend; or could it not be just a random guy sitting across the room from the girl, one she has never met before?"

See like i have stated in my very first blog these are my overall opinions of what i observe day to day throughout years..... meaning i can't possibly know every aspect to every "Nice Guy" however i can share with you what i know in terms of about who the Nice Guy Is!

See not all nice guys are the shy type but typically they are the ones to fly under the radar if you know what i mean. Nice Guys typically go about their business without making a scene or having themselves be too noticed. Some guys thrive in crowds of people making them feel safe in terms of comfortable not being one on one with a female...... however some feel completely comfortable especially when trying to approach the female in which he desires (i use the word desire as in wanting to talk with and like ...not sexual desire).

See anyone of the guys can be shy depending on how approachable the woman is to them! If she seems intimidating then that makes it difficult for the shy ones to approach you! However there are the Nice Guys whether shy or not that have sudden bursts of courage that could last a couple minutes or for as long as they deem fit! Also though like i said in the previous blogs the nice guy could very well already be in your life (like the best friend)..... see this is where doubt not only comes into play when trying to weed out the "Typical" guy but also helps you see where your closest guy friends feelings truly lie.... whether in your hands of friendship or your passion of love.

Also the Nice Guy could very well be the guy the woman doesn't notice at all (and often times is) the guy sitting across the room. This Nice Guy notices the woman and instantly she has his attention at all times! From this point it could take the guy a matter of minutes to try his lady luck or it could take up to many years! It all depends on the amount or when his burst of courage comes.

The thing is ladies out there that are reading this.... its not just your job to look for the Nice Guy but its also not there job to find you!! Its a mutual thing for both of you to undertake! Love doesn't wait for anyone and second chances are even harder to come by then firsts so keep your eyes open and doubt all guys but don't be afraid to take chances on the ones that not only catch your eyes but your heart and that goes for both you Women and Nice Guys out there!!!

Because really the Nice Guy could be anyone of the guys out there ladies (All of the above) they may be hard to spot but they may also be easy it all depends on how hard you look or not look! And Nice Guys reading (or all guys wanting to be the "Nice Guy") its the same for you it is all how bad to you want it, and by it i mean belonging and love! Either way you have to notice them and more importantly allow them into your lives it takes more than just what you see...... in the end it comes down to what you feel!!! Trust in your mind first and let the heart fall into place!!

Sincerely,

Mr. Nice Guy