Women Put The Test Into Test-osterone

My fellow readers and followers of my blog i am now my 5th post into blogging and feel that i cannot go any further until i lay down some more ground work..... what i mean by this is... i can talk about the Nice Guy and how it is becoming a non existent thing in today's society but i haven't really explain as to why this may be happening??? So today i feel compelled to answer this! See i was left thinking about this after one of my devoted followers left a comment on my previous blog "Did Chivalry Die With The Middle Ages??" her comment was: "This seems to be dying as not many men feel the need to do these sweet acts of kindness for their lady. Why is this i wonder?" So i plan to answer this and accent on why the Nice Guy seems to being a dying breed!!

Alright so before anyone jumps to conclusions about the title to my blog today let me explain my reasoning. The reason in which i titled it this is because in order to be the Nice Guy both men and women must understand what this means and how we as men are put to the test. So here we go.....

Men are.... a physical creature and well we can't really help that....right?? Or can we??? See this is where the defined line between "Typical" guys and "Nice" guys is drawn. Being a guy i know and well all other guys know we are empirical by nature! We need to experience things with our senses! And well its undeniable to say that guys use or in terms "abuse" or "misuse" their sense of sight! (and well later touch) The visual is what most men hang their hats on when it comes to women! Even ladies know this right! However shallow most guys seem there are still some of us that dig a little deeper ...or well a lot deeper in some situations! All guys observe and we can't deny that! But see this where the real test comes into play! Guys tend to not do chivalrous acts because they feel that this gets them no where and really in a perverse way (like most men think.... but remember not all) don't show them any physical "action" or response worth anything. But they miss the picture altogether! Lets break it down here shall we?

The Typical Guy

See the typical guys are either attracted to what they see in a woman or is repelled by something that is in the women's features. They are like all of us at first... looking at the physical features but most often times that is the extent of there looking! They tend to not be interested as much in the overall personality that the woman possesses, and truly this is a shame! These types of guys i do not hold in very high respect for at all! And if you as a guy fall into this category well then I'm sorry to say you need to start growing up! Cuz you are failing the test! Women don't want just another guy like all the rest that see them and instantly start trying to be "smooth" (which are most times not smooth at all). Girls don't want a sad attempt at being "picked up" they want to be acknowledged for something more!! Emotional connection is just as or even more valuable then a physical one!! Learn it!! And it will save yourselves not only a lot of time in several rejections but also to have the satisfaction of being able talk and show love and compassion without necessarily being so physical! Women respect this!

The Nice Guy

See the nice guys are not different in the sense of observing and being attracted to the visual aspects of women that please them. However, where they are different is what they do with that afterwards! See the nice guys go towards the situations with a different approach and this is where things like the "lost" art of chivalry comes into play! Simple "little things" (Ahhhh yes here they come into play yet again!!) do wonders in not only breaking the ice but getting to know the woman's likes and dislikes. This information is what is truly valuable!

Guys who you are is ultimately your decision.... but keep in mind there is a reason why the famous saying is "Good things come to those who wait". Truthfully women know what women want but really do us men know? Well most of us anyways?..... Probably not! Or just wish to avoid it. Guys, if there is anything i can tell you is learn your women!!! Not their bodies and how they work..... cuz really we all know how that works! (Hopefully an accurate generalization) I mean their minds!!! Women test us every day! Not only in our intelligence but also in our self control and emotional depth! Think deeper than what's just underneath their clothes my fellow masculine friends! Its all a test and its scary if you really think and apply a little effort how well your results (Not Sexual Results) might just turn out!

Sincerely,

Mr. Nice Guy