Today's blog post is in response to a comment question from yesterday's blog "Women Put The Test Into Test-osterone". This devoted follower has asked questions before and i believe i have answered them the best i could. The comment yesterday was: "what kind of women are out there? is there a typical women? a bad one?" now see this is a different type of question and therefore will get a different type of response this time. Still going with my theme for my blog i shall answer this question in the terms of what the "Nice Guy" sees in women.... basically what he looks for. My blog is with the intent to tell about the Nice Guy and educate other guys to be the nice guy. Also to help women identify them or let them know not to give up hope cuz we still exist, so i don't plan on bashing women or labeling them as "bad". I hope this still offers some insight and makes for an interesting blog...... so without further a do! Here we go!
What the Nice Guy looks for in a woman is really hard to find. Not like its not there because every woman has that special something, its just the matter of finding the right one for you. Women are not like men they don't really have categories per say. The "Typical" guy has viewpoints in terms of what he calls the easier and the harder to get when it comes to women. But like all my other posts its about what the Nice Guy does and wants!
I use the saying "Diamond In The Rough" because quite simply that's what the Nice Guy lives to find. Every Nice Guy is different in what they want down to the detail.... however i can generalize (keep in mind only a generalization) what they would be looking for in their "Diamond".
Women give off signals to men. They send us vibes, they give looks our way, they move in a way that moves us as men. Now see the Nice Guy isn't looking for the next best thing..... he isn't looking for the most attractive girl...... or the most intelligent girl...... or the most athletic girl. All of these are great qualities in a woman and definitely play a part in compatibility. Did you hear me guys compatibility! The Nice Guy is looking first and foremost for a friend! For someone who is trustworthy and caring. Like i have referred too before its the personality that we look for in a woman. Something that makes a connection with our own. Something in the woman that motivates us to learn more about her! That compels us as Nice Guys to spend time getting to know her. We look for solid foundations in friendships to have the chance to build upon in the near future.
I must ask you how many times in movies have you seen the boy and girl character who have been friends for so long and know everything about each other end up together in the end? My guess is a lot or even a few at least! See you think Hollywood plays this up and creates a story like this and not base it on actual events. No see things like this actually happen and usually we as the Nice Guy or the woman fail to see what we have just right in front of us!
So really to answer this question ..... there isn't a typical women for a Nice Guy! There is however THE Woman! That Diamond! That if you wait long enough will show up! Shining right in front of your eyes! Its not the matter of there being a "Bad" woman ...... there is only a woman that is right for the Nice Guy! Or for any guy!
In the end the scales of justice play out and fate becomes reality! Guys whether they are the Typical or the Nice will get the women they deserve! And the women most importantly deserve the man they choose!
So both genders get your shovels ready and pickaxes if need be! Because diamonds are below the surface and you can only get there by digging!
Sincerely,
Mr. Nice Guy
well thanks mr. nice guy! that was really interesting and I certainly didnt think of it in that perspective before now. In a future blog can you write about how the guy may move too fast with things such as physical commitment, etc. and how this may affect things?
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